Will you ask for what you want? Or, will you not ask?
You don’t ask, believing you won’t get what you want, anyway. And because you don’t ask you have no chance, regardless.
Not asking for what I wanted ran my life, for most of it. I believed I couldn’t ask for it. I would sabotage any possibility of receiving it, by simply not asking.
Do you ask for what you want? Or are you fearful of not receiving it too.